I’ve thought of about 100 different ways to write this post but I’m going to do what I always do and just write “Whatever I Think”.
MY DAUGHTER IS PREGNANT. I AM GOING TO BE A GRANDMA!!!!!
There I’ve said it. Could I be more excited ? ABSOLUTELY FREAKIN’ NO!
Will I be a good granny? It depends on who you ask.
Now you all know how long I’ve been wanting to be a grandma. I may have mentioned it numerous times. Here is the cool story of how and when they told us.
On October 11th we went to visit Grampa in the nursing home. We knew he only had a few days to live. He didn’t seem to be recognizing anyone but the whole time we were there he held onto both of Sarah’s hands and wouldn’t stop looking at her. It seemed like he was trying to tell her something but he had severe pneumonia and nothing was coming out. He never let go of her hands the whole visit. It was a sad time because we knew we probably wouldn’t see him again. At the same time watching him hold Sarah’s hands was so moving and beautiful.
We finally left the nursing home and went out to dinner. We were starving and 1 1/2 hours from home. We sat down at a table and Sarah said she had something to tell us. Barry, Leslie and I looked at her with rapt attention. I’m thinking they are getting another dog or they are going to paint the house. She said ” I’m pregnant.” I said “No, you’re not.” I seriously thought she was joking. She said “Mom, I wouldn’t joke about something like this.” Then I burst into tears and was hugging her and crying really loudly.
Sarah explained that she thought it might be bad timing to tell us then, what with Grampa being so ill and all, but she couldn’t hold it back anymore. She also said she felt Grampa would want us to know because we were sort of exchanging him for a new baby and he would like that. I swear Grampa knew she was pregnant. Somehow he just knew and if he did I am sure it made him very happy.
So I have known for almost 6 weeks. Do you know how hard it was for me not to tell anyone? It damn near killed me. Sarah wanted to not tell everyone until she was at least 12 weeks along. At Thanksgiving they announced it to Obie’s family.
Another amazing thing happened. Sarah has a best friend. They have known each other since kindergarten. They always swore they would be pregnant together. Bianca got married last year. She came to the house two weeks ago to tell us she was pregnant too. She is only two weeks behind Sarah and it is totally coincidental.
Thanksgiving was wonderful yesterday because I have so much to be thankful for. I will post a few photos. Most of the good ones are on Sarah’s camera but I have a couple. I will post the rest tomorrow.
This is what greeted us when we arrived
The Thanksgiving Table
My tiny dessert, Key Lime pie
We have so much to do to prepare for a baby living in this house. It will be quite a task for all of us. Of course, you will all get blow by blow descriptions of everything that happens as it happens.
I might even post again today but I want to get this up and share the news.